Relationships · Self-worth · Life patterns
Integrative Psychologist
I help you understand why you keep finding yourself in the same relationships, the same states or the same dead-ends — and what is really preventing you from changing it.
No surface-level advice or endless conversations “about feelings”. Genuine understanding of how your reactions, choices and life patterns are formed.
Approach
Anxiety, difficult relationships, emotional dependency, the fear of being seen, a sense of stagnation or constantly returning to the same situations — none of this is accidental.
Behind it usually sit life patterns, inner beliefs and ways of adapting that a person continues to live out automatically.
In our sessions we examine:
The aim of the work is not temporary relief, but to shift the very mechanism that brings you back into these states.
Areas I work with
Consultation Formats
Deep individual work focused on your specific request. Suited to those who want not simply to talk things through, but to genuinely understand what is happening, why it is happening and how to change it in practice. I combine psychological analysis, an NLP-based approach and practical tools that help you not only see the problem, but begin to shift your inner reactions and behaviour.
Online (Zoom) · 60–75 minutes
Work with the dynamic between you. We clarify what is really happening in the relationship, why you have stopped hearing one another, whether trust and connection can be rebuilt, where there is true conflict and where there are accumulated, unspoken emotions — and whether the relationship can be preserved, and what that requires from both sides. Suited to couples in crisis, after infidelity, emotional distance or recurring conflict.
Online · 90 minutes
A format for the deep diagnosis of life patterns. Suited to situations where you feel stuck, internally tangled or caught in repeating scenarios without understanding why. Together we examine reactions and behavioural models, inner limitations, unconscious beliefs, repeating life patterns and points of inner tension. This format helps you see, far more quickly than ordinary analysis, what often goes unnoticed in daily life. It is not “magic” or entertainment — it is a serious tool for psychological work and self-diagnosis.
Online / In person (London) · 2.5–4 hours
How it works
We begin by looking at your request and current situation: relationships, inner state, self-worth, repeating patterns or a sense of being stuck.
From there we examine:
We then move into practical work: shifting perception, reactions and the inner mechanisms that sustain the problem. You leave not with abstract “self-understanding”, but with clarity, structure and a clear sense of your next steps.
Outcomes of the work
Client Transformation Stories
“I came to Ivva feeling completely anxious in relationships — constant fear of abandonment, jealousy, and a deep sense of not being enough. Through our work, I began to recognise my patterns and build healthy boundaries. For the first time, I feel calm and secure with someone.”
“For years, I believed something was wrong with me. I kept choosing the same kind of partners, and it always ended in pain. Ivva helped me rebuild my self-worth and understand my inner patterns. Now, I no longer seek validation — I choose myself.”
“I was in an emotionally draining, almost abusive relationship and felt unable to leave. These sessions gave me clarity and inner strength. Today, I am in a respectful and healthy relationship.”
“I couldn't understand why my relationships kept falling apart. Working with Ivva helped me uncover deep unconscious patterns. It changed not only my relationships, but how I see myself.”
“I came to Ivva feeling completely anxious in relationships — constant fear of abandonment, jealousy, and a deep sense of not being enough. Through our work, I began to recognise my patterns and build healthy boundaries. For the first time, I feel calm and secure with someone.”
“For years, I believed something was wrong with me. I kept choosing the same kind of partners, and it always ended in pain. Ivva helped me rebuild my self-worth and understand my inner patterns. Now, I no longer seek validation — I choose myself.”
“I was in an emotionally draining, almost abusive relationship and felt unable to leave. These sessions gave me clarity and inner strength. Today, I am in a respectful and healthy relationship.”
“I couldn't understand why my relationships kept falling apart. Working with Ivva helped me uncover deep unconscious patterns. It changed not only my relationships, but how I see myself.”
Next step
“I used to believe something was wrong with me. Today, I'm in a calm, healthy relationship — and finally feel like myself.”
Send me a message — I reply personally and help you choose the right format.